The way love's supposed to be

Sometimes I know we fight, sometimes things don't seem right,
Isn't that the way love's supposed to be?
And girl, I know it's hard, don't let things fall apart,
Isn't that the way love's supposed to be?

- Selwyn in 'The Way Love’s Supposed to be'

The other day when we were in the car, one of my bf’s friends asked him what made him attracted to me. I personally have not asked him that question before but I’m quite sure that he sees some qualities in me that he adores.

Even when I am super-stubborn, hate to be criticized and always want to have the last word.

The thing about being in love is that it’s always about taking a leap of faith together because we never know what will happen tomorrow. We could be in a relationship now and break up the next day. Hell, even married couples can get a divorce so who's to say that anything in this world can last forever?

Sometimes, the ‘& they lived happily ever after’ remains a phrase heard only in fairy tales.

But does that mean that we have to give up our quest of searching for true love?

I certainly hope not.

So if I’m single and feeling lonely now, should I re-consider all the men in my life and pick the best option available even if I know that there’s no sparks between us?

Often at times when you refuse to accept anything but the best, it will come to you. I’ve always believe in fate, especially when it comes to love but of course sitting at home waiting for your Prince Charming to come knocking on your door will not be the wisest decision. Unless your Prince happens to be the mailman, of course.

As for me, after all that we have been through, even if we argue, fuss and fight a lot, at the end of the day, it feels good to know that I have someone waiting for me at home. Someone I can turn to at times of hardship, someone to share my laughter and tears with.

Someone who loves me for me.

“Love is not blind – it sees more, not less. But because it sees more, it is willing to see less.” – Rabbi Julins Gordon

Thank God I found you,